Friday, March 7, 2014

Spring Forward

In 1784 during a visit to Paris, Benjamin Franklin published a short essay titled: “An Economical Project for Diminishing the Cost of Light” that proposed to economize the use of candles by rising earlier to make use of the morning sunlight.  230 years later we Spring Forward each year as we enter Daylight Savings Time.  That will happen at 2:00 a.m. this Sunday morning, March 9.

We will have the coffee and doughnuts ready to help you wake up and for those of you who are coffee connoisseurs Harvest now has O’ Henry’s Coffee available on Sunday mornings.

So don’t forget to set your clocks ahead an hour early before you head to bed – you don’t want to be late for an incredible message from Ted Lowe of MarriedPeople on the power of words.


And if you struggle to wake up on DST Sunday – you can thank Benjamin Franklin!


Thursday, March 6, 2014

MarriedPeople

At Mountaintop we talk a lot about being a community that is learning and sharing a better way to live.  We believe that Jesus offers us not just a way to live forever but also a better way to live today.  Very simply:

Life is better with Jesus and Jesus makes us better at life.

We are convinced that Jesus offers us a better way to raise kids, handle money, offer and receive forgiveness, be a friend, be single, be generous, serve others, grieve, love…the list is endless.

This weekend we are focusing on a better way to be married.  On Sunday evening Ted Lowe of MarriedPeople will be speaking at our Oh What A Night couples’ dessert and sharing ways to keep fun in our relationships.  Oh What A Night is sold out but we have lots of room in our Sunday morning services where Ted will we help us learn how to better use our words (guess what John Mayer song he asked us to perform before he teaches – hint: you can call him “Captain Backfire”).

MarriedPeople is committed to helping churches help marriages by introducing couples to the Core 4 Habits of a Great Marriage:

Have Serious Fun
 
Having fun as a couple is not optional; it’s essential. We believe the best way to protect your marriage is to enjoy it regularly.


Respect and Love
Of the few verses God gives to husbands and wives, the directive to respect and love is commanded more than any other. This truth really can set us free when we understand the interplay of respect and love. 


Love God First
When Jesus was asked about the greatest commandment, His answer was to love God with all you are and to love others as well as you love yourself. Loving God in your individual life greatly impacts your married life.

Practice Your Promise
Our spouses trusted that we would do what we promised when we said, “I do”— to love each other and to stay together no matter what. Knowing and experiencing a lasting commitment is vital to every marriage.

This is a perfect weekend to invite a couple to join us so we can share a better way to be married.

PS – In coming weeks we will have more opportunities to learn and share better ways to live.  April 25 and 26 our men are retreating to learn a better life.  It will be a “how-to” retreat where we explore what it means to be a man and what we must do to serve one another, our families, our church, and most importantly, God. Sometimes we get and right and sometimes we get it wrong and God has something to say about both.  We will hear real-life stories from men who and faced and overcome the challenges all of us face and have found healing through their relationship with Jesus Christ.  For more information click on A Better Life and watch for sign up opportunities on Sunday mornings.


Wednesday, March 5, 2014

Prayer and Fasting


So we fasted and petitioned our God about this, and he answered our prayer.
Ezra 8: 23

 “When you fast, do not look somber as the hypocrites do, for they disfigure their faces to show others they are fasting. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full. But when you fast, put oil on your head and wash your face, so that it will not be obvious to others that you are fasting, but only to your Father, who is unseen; and your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you.
Jesus – Matthew 6: 16 – 18

Fasting
Fasting is a powerful spiritual discipline. Through fasting and prayer, the Holy Spirit can transform lives and bring revival.

When we fast and pray we humble ourselves before God so the Holy Spirit will stir our souls, awaken our churches, and heal our land according 

Fasting is the voluntary abstinence from an otherwise normal function – most often eating – for the sake of intense spiritual activity.

Fasting is choosing not to feed ourselves so that we might be fed by God.

Sometimes people fast when they need to strengthen their prayers.
Fasting is also a way to express our grief and repentance.
Sometimes fasting is practiced as an act of worship.
Sometimes people fasting to seek God’s guidance.

Fasting can help us become more humble, self-controlled and balanced. 

Fasting reveals and then releases us from the things that control us.

*Fasting is not dieting and should be practice with care with anyone with dietary restrictions of eating disorders.


Make A Commitment
Why are you fasting? Is it for spiritual renewal, for guidance, for healing, for the resolution of problems, for special grace to handle a difficult situation? Ask the Holy Spirit to clarify His leading and objectives for your prayer fast. This will enable you to pray more specifically and strategically.

Pray about the kind of fast you should undertake. Jesus implied that all of His followers should fast (Matthew 6:16-18; 9:14,15) For Him it was a matter of when believers would fast, not if they would do it. Before you fast, decide the following up front:

How long you will fast - one meal, one day, a week, several weeks, forty days (Beginners should start slowly, building up to longer fasts.)

The type of fast God wants you to undertake (such as water only, or water and juices; what kinds of juices you will drink and how often)

What physical or social activities you will restrict

How much time each day you will devote to prayer and God's Word

Making these commitments ahead of time will help you sustain your fast when physical temptations and life's pressures tempt you to abandon it.

Prepare Yourself Spiritually
The very foundation of fasting and prayer is repentance. Unconfessed sin will hinder your prayers. Here are several things you can do to prepare your heart:

Ask God to help you make a comprehensive list of your sins.

Confess every sin that the Holy Spirit calls to your remembrance and accept God's forgiveness (1 John 1:9).

Seek forgiveness from all whom you have offended, and forgive all who have hurt you (Mark 11:25; Luke 11:4; 17:3,4).

Make restitution as the Holy Spirit leads you.

Ask God to fill you with His Holy Spirit according to His command in Ephesians 5:18 and His promise in 1 John 5:14,15.

Surrender your life fully to Jesus Christ as your Lord and Master; refuse to obey your worldly nature (Romans 12:1,2).

Meditate on the attributes of God, His love, sovereignty, power, wisdom, faithfulness, grace, compassion, and others (Psalm 48:9,10; 103:1-8, 11-13).

Begin your time of fasting and prayer with an expectant heart (Hebrews 11:6).

Do not underestimate spiritual opposition. Satan sometimes intensifies the natural battle between body and spirit (Galatians 5:16,17).

Prepare Yourself Physically
Fasting requires reasonable precautions. Consult your physician first, especially if you take prescription medication or have a chronic ailment. Some persons should never fast without professional supervision.

Physical preparation makes the drastic change in your eating routine a little easier so that you can turn your full attention to the Lord in prayer.

Do not rush into your fast.

Prepare your body. Eat smaller meals before starting a fast. Avoid high-fat and sugary foods.

Eat raw fruit and vegetables for two days before starting a fast.

Put Yourself on a Schedule
Your time of fasting and prayer has come. You are abstaining from all solid foods and have begun to seek the Lord. Here are some helpful suggestions to consider:

Avoid drugs, even natural herbal drugs and homeopathic remedies. Medication should be withdrawn only with your physician's supervision.

Limit your activity.

Exercise only moderately. Walk one to three miles each day if convenient and comfortable.

Rest as much as your schedule will permit.

Prepare yourself for temporary mental discomforts, such as impatience, crankiness, and anxiety.

Expect some physical discomforts, especially on the second day. You may have fleeting hunger pains, dizziness, or the "blahs." Withdrawal from caffeine and sugar may cause headaches. Physical annoyances may also include weakness, tiredness, or sleeplessness.


The first two or three days are usually the hardest. As you continue to fast, you will likely experience a sense of well-being both physically and spiritually. However, should you feel hunger pains, increase your liquid intake.

For maximum spiritual benefit, set aside ample time to be alone with the Lord. Listen for His leading. The more time you spend with Him, the more meaningful your fast will be.

Morning
Begin your day in praise and worship.
Read and meditate on God's Word, preferably on your knees.
Invite the Holy Spirit to work in you to will and to do His good pleasure according to Philippians 2:13.
Invite God to use you. Ask Him to show you how to influence your world, your family, your church, your community, your country, and beyond.
Pray for His vision for your life and empowerment to do His will.

Noon
Return to prayer and God's Word.
Take a short prayer walk.
Spend time in intercessory prayer for your community's and nation's leaders, for the world's unreached millions, for your family or special needs.

Evening
Get alone for an unhurried time of "seeking His face."
If others are fasting with you, meet together for prayer.
Avoid television or any other distraction that may dampen your spiritual focus.
When possible, begin and end each day on your knees with your spouse for a brief time of praise and thanksgiving to God. Longer periods of time with our Lord in prayer and study of His Word are often better spent alone.

A Sample Fasting “Diet”
5 a.m. - 8 a.m.
Fruit juices, preferably freshly squeezed or blended and diluted in 50 percent distilled water if the fruit is acid. Apple, pear, grapefruit, papaya, watermelon, or other fruit juices are generally preferred. If you cannot do your own juicing, buy juices without sugar or additives.

10:30 a.m. - noon
Fresh vegetable juice made from lettuce, celery, and carrots in three equal parts.

2:30 p.m. - 4 p.m.
Herb tea with a drop of honey. Avoid black tea or any tea with caffeine.

6 p.m. - 8:30 p.m.
Broth made from boiling potatoes, celery, and carrots with no salt. After boiling about half an hour, pour the water into a container and drink it.
Before Bed
1 cup of herbal tea, perhaps a sleep-inducing one.

Tips on Juice Fasting
Drinking fruit juice will decrease your hunger pains and give you some natural sugar energy. The taste and lift will motivate and strengthen you to continue.
The best juices are made from fresh watermelon, lemons, grapes, apples, cabbage, beets, carrots, celery, or leafy green vegetables. In cold weather, you may enjoy a warm vegetable broth.
Mix acidic juices (orange and tomato) with water for your stomach's sake.
Avoid caffeinated drinks. And avoid chewing gum or mints, even if your breath is bad. They stimulate digestive action in your stomach.

End Your Fast Gradually
Begin eating gradually. Do not eat solid foods immediately after your fast. Suddenly reintroducing solid food to your stomach and digestive tract will likely have negative, even dangerous, consequences. Try several smaller meals or snacks each day. If you end your fast gradually, the beneficial physical and spiritual effects will result in continued good health.

Here are some suggestions to help you end your fast properly:

Break an extended water fast with fruit such as watermelon.

While continuing to drink fruit or vegetable juices, add the following:
First day: Add a raw salad.
Second day: Add baked or boiled potato, no butter or seasoning.
Third day: Add a steamed vegetable.
Thereafter: Begin to reintroduce your normal diet.

Gradually return to regular eating with several small snacks during the first few days. Start with a little soup and fresh fruit such as watermelon and cantaloupe. Advance to a few tablespoons of solid foods such as raw fruits and vegetables or a raw salad and baked potato.

Expect Results
If you sincerely humble yourself before the Lord, repent, pray, and seek God's face; if you consistently meditate on His Word, you will experience a heightened awareness of His presence (John 14:21). The Lord will give you fresh, new spiritual insights. Your confidence and faith in God will be strengthened. You will feel mentally, spiritually, and physically refreshed. You will see answers to your prayers.


Tuesday, March 4, 2014

Tweets from the 2014 Catalyst One Day

One of my commitments is to be constantly learning and growing as a leader.  My goal is to be the best leader for Mountaintop that I can be.  I certainly don’t have it all figured out and so I am always reading and look for opportunities to learn from others.  

Last Monday I had a chance to do that at a Catalyst One Day Leadership Conference at North Point Community Church, in Atlanta.   Andy Stanley (North Point) and Craig Groeschel (LifeChurch.tv) spoke on six leadership topics:

Prioritizing the value of family in ministry
Effectively managing your time
Improving communication with your staff
Creating a culture of accountability
Building high performance teams
Utilizing a compelling approach in communicating with the unchurched

It was a packed day and one that filled my head and my journal with lessons that I am still unpacking.  Throughout the day I furiously write in the my journal and share some of the highlights by Twitter.  Here are my Tweets from the 2014 Catalyst One Day:

Decide once and for all whose responsibility it is to build the local church (Hint:  It’s not you). (if you miss the hint the answer is Jesus)

The goal for a family is that when they don’t HAVE to be together they will WANT to be together.

Protect your marriage on your calendar not just in your heart.

To reach people no one is reaching you have to do something no one is doing.

Whenever you say yes to anything there is less of you for something else.  Make sure your “yes” is worth the less.

Create artificial deadlines for increased effectiveness.

Delegate tasks to build followers.  Delegate responsibility to build leaders.

To be successful it has to be less about you and more about the people you empower.

Never blame by saying “our people won’t” instead take responsibility and say “we have not led them to”

Don’t criticize what doesn’t work – point to something better.

Employees spend money.  Owners invest money.  Employees care about themselves.  Owners care about the organization.

General ideas will not lead people to specific actions.

Everyone in the church should know what the next message series is and why they should bring someone.

In communication authenticity trumps cool and truth trumps all.

People would rather follow a leader who is always real than one who is always right.

Light yourself on fire and people will come from miles to watch you burn – John Wesley

Pastors are shepherds not kings (which is why I prefer “Doug” over “Pastor Doug”)

The cost of a thing is the amount of life which is required to be exchanged for it, immediately, or in the long run – Thoreau (that actually wasn’t shared at Catalyst but showed up on my twitter feed from the brilliant Christina Dudley - @CNDudley)

It’s easier to educate a doer that it is to activate a thinker.  Rent thinkers.  Hire doers! (my college roommate Jim Chapa immediately responded that he was available for rent).

…if you judge a fish by its ability to climb trees, it will live its whole life believing that its stupid – A. Einstein

No one stumbles into holiness.  No one trips and falls into righteousness.

There is nothing about sin that is ever worth it.

To create a culture of accountability 1) quit guarding the pastor mystique and model transparency and confession

To create a culture of accountability 2) Create a climate where it’s safe to confess early – Proverbs 28: 13

To create a culture of accountability 3) live and lead with the highest standards

We are learning and sharing a better way to live because we believe that life is better with Jesus and Jesus makes us better at life.

Our goal isn’t to be right – our goal is to convince people that life is better with Jesus and Jesus makes us better at life.

Your greatest contribution might not be something you do but someone you raise.

I have become all things to all people so that by all possible means I might save some – 1 Corinthians 9: 22

It's okay to be winsome to win some….ouch!

The foundation of our faith is better than a book – it’s an event!


Wings with @CJUnderwood34 @ Taco Mac is the perfect way to end a day at Catalyst (it really was - they have awesome queso!)