But
the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness,
faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.
Galatians 5: 22 and 23
Years
ago a friend introduced me to a way to examine my life and ask if I am growing
spiritually. The idea is that if I am
keeping in step with the Spirit then there should be evidence of the fruits of
the Spirit growing in my life. So for
each of these nine “fruits” simply ask yourself:
Am I growing in this
area?
Am I going backwards?
Am I just treading
water – maintaining my place?
It
helps to write them down (or print this page) and if you are growing, give
yourself a little up arrow next to that fruit. If you are going backward put a
little down arrow and a dash if you are just staying the same.
Love
Is
your heart more or less tender towards God?
Does
expressing love for God draw you to worship?
Are
you engaging in more acts of service – especially the kind where you don’t care
if anyone notices?
How
do you respond to people who seem unloveable?
Joy
If
you were to record your conversations and attitudes through the day, how often
would you catch yourself laughing, celebrating and just rejoicing in the
goodness of God and the wonder of His creation?
How
often would you catch yourself grumbling or complaining?
Are
you more or less joyful than you were a year ago?
Peace
It may be that your circumstances are more
difficult than they were a year ago – so you have to take that into
consideration.
Overall,
are your mind and heart more at ease and at rest in God or more troubled and
anxious?
Do
you find yourself relating to people in ways that promotes peace or stirs up
dissention?
Is
your home or office more or less peaceful than it was a year ago?
Forebearance
(and
the word here is often translated as Patience)
If you are already working on Kindness go
ahead and give yourself a down arrow here.
How
do you respond when you don’t get your way?
What’s
your reaction when you are forced to wait – in traffic or in a line at the
grocery store?
How
have you handled unanswered prayer?
Can
you wait gracefully?
Are
you more or less patient than you were 12 months ago?
Kindness
Are
you more likely to do good things for other people when you are not going to
get any benefit from it?
How
likely are you to show kindness to the anonymous people around you – like those
who wait on tables and clean your office or school?
Are
you more of less likely to affirm or encourage people now than you used to be?
Goodness
(and this word could also be translated as Generosity):
What
proportion of my income are you giving to God’s work?
Is
it greater, less or the same than last year?
Does your heart desire to give more?
Are you giving in other ways?
Are you finding ways to use my time and talents for ministry?
What’s your reaction when someone asks to borrow your stuff or take a moment of your time?
Faithfulness
Are
you more committed today than you were 12 months ago?
Are
you more dependable?
How
you been better or worse at making and keeping promises?
How
are you doing with procrastination?
If you are waiting to take this test later,
give yourself a down arrow here.
Gentleness
This has to
do with our attitude and style of relating to others.
Do people
find you more or less approachable?
What tone of
voice do you use with family, friends, co-workers, classmates, strangers?
When you have
to speak a hard word to someone can you do it gently with love and a genuine
concern for the person?
Self Control
Are
bad habits more or less troubling to you?
What
about the language you use and how you speak to people?
Are
you more or less likely to give into impulses that move you away from God?
Are
you more or less likely to give into temptation and sin?
Now
take an honest look at this list and ask yourself:
Am I bearing fruit? Is my life changing?
The expectation is
that for those of us who follow Jesus is that we would be changing – bearing
fruit and actually becoming more like Him year after year.
If you aren’t
growing ask yourself: What steps do I
need to take to keep in step with the Holy Spirit?